If you email her, she’ll first see your username, photo and subject line of your email. What girl in her right mind would want to date a guy with a username like this: Note: Bad usernames are typical.

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There’s just something about a good name paired with a tasteful photo that makes me stop and notice, but most of the names guys use are terrible.” Mike is a current student in the e Dating Doc Academy. We started by changing his photos, profile and email exchanges so they work together. As an experiment, we saved his username for last, which as I mentioned before, along with your picture, is your first impression. C-3po and R2-D2 from Star Wars will love that username!!! Tip: I advise against using your name in your username unless it’s something that’s really witty like — Mike Like AMint because it can take away mystery. Simply that your username should trigger a pleasant feeling for the girl. For example: The username – Feels Like LOVE – is waaaay too romantic/mushy.

Mike is a marine, so we included a great photo of him in uniform. How can we tie being a Marine into his username in a way that women will find irresistible? A Marine is the modern day Knight, so what better name than Mike In Shining Armor?! This creates a connection between those pleasant feelings and YOU. If you were to use that, the girl will think you’re a boring pile of mush.

This can also be a great option for separating words.

Here’s an example of capitalization and spelling gone horribly wrong.

This synergy has made my dating life crazy awesome. To go from not being able to get a date, to being able to attempt 150 Dates in 1 Year is a big difference. So that’s where we’ll start and why I created The Complete Online Dating Username Guide: A Step By Step Guide For Creating Your Own Irresistible Username. Girls take about 3 seconds to decide to check you out or to move on to the next guy. Here is an example of what a girl sees when she’s searching – The username is right at the top. You didn’t put much thought into your username — but it’s your first impression, so don’t sabotage your online dating with a bla username!

There’s an online epidemic of username suckyness going on that’s about to get cured for the Doc’s group of kick-ass gents. When a girl is browsing profiles or checking through her messages deciding which guy to click on — there’s a problem. Your username is one of the first things a girl sees online. I surveyed 10 girls that use online dating and they all agreed.Mike went from never getting a response online to totally filling up the Date Manager with phone numbers to dating beautiful women. A performer (actor, singer or artist) will often take on a cooler stage name because their real name is considered unattractive, boring, or difficult to spell or pronounce. I recently saw a guy who’s internet dating username was Bone Crusher. What girl doesn’t like a guy with a sense of humor?They also may choose a name to appeal to a specific audience or an unusual name to grab attention. A funny/dorky username is a great way to connect with her positive feelings.Using the positive association girls have with finding their Knight In Shining Armor. I know it’s a little confusing but I’ll make it crystal clear with these detailed examples. This would be a great name for a wrestler that 13 year old boys would find awesome but — for women? Something I see all the time is guys adding a bunch of numbers after their name. To connect to these pleasant feelings, your username should be any combination of the following: Funny, Dorky, Tender, Subtly Romantic, Silly, Creative. But the username — feelslike ZOOM — is AWESOME because it still hints at that love/excitement feeling that a girl finds attractive without being to mushy.When he changed his username from Mike4758 to Mike In Shining Armor, All hell broke loose!!! When creating a username remember that it needs to appeal to women. So how can you connect to more of these good feelings?• About the Author: Who Is This Radio Wright Guy Anyway?