We also noticed some positive reviews that seemed fake.The English in the positive reviews doesn't seem as if the person is a native English speaker leading us to believe that the site has hired possibly paid trolls (people paid to leave fictitious comments on blogs etc) to post fake reviews giving the site positive reviews.

It may be a birthday party in Dragonfly, a wedding, a dinner between colleagues.

Don't be afraid to pass the word around you that you are fed up with the bar scene, and that you are looking for a serious woman to be with.

We all know that meeting a girl in a bar is not a smart thing to do, but in spite of that, this is the place where 90% of the "love-stories" between expats and Indonesian girls start.

Most of these stories fail, and failures after failures, you start to realize that in bars & clubs, the girls you meet are mostly hookers or men-eaters, and you can't change them.

: For Salsa: Even if you are there to learn, it's better to be a good cavalier and to enjoy dancing. Where: Tuesday evening, 19h in Mistere, in Ritz Carlton.

Internet is a good way to meet girls in Jakarta, but you should be careful because it is a tool used by many prostitutes too.You may then ask yourself: Where are the intelligent, smart, beautiful women in Jakarta, the one we want to live with or marry? I know around 50 expats/indonesian girls couples functioning well in Jakarta. I made a survey on them, plus I added my own experience.The result is a good summary of how to meet girls you would want to marry in Jakarta, in no particular order: Most of the couples I know were formed during private parties, dinners or in a social context when different groups of friends are mixing up.If you look at any female profile on Chn they all look like professional models.All the women on this site are very attractive looking Asian girls with professional photographs in their profiles.Take a look at the profiles that we found while searching the database of members.