This is not intended to be a complete list, mind you.

But understanding these few simple things about guys could help you a lot.

He really likes the girl for a lot of her character traits but notices that she’s not going to let him go. Self-Confident, and with that relationship, she is trying desperately to plug some pretty big holes in her own self-esteem. You know how that usually turns out…clinginess, jealousy, anger, tears. (BTW, guys have to deal with insecurity just as much as girls.) Dustin continued: 2) Guys just want sex from a girl.

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If you are dating a guy who cheated before, there is a good chance he will cheat on you too, even if from the beginning he never planned it that way.

If he has cheated more than once, it is even more likely that it will happen again.

They wait for a while, giving promises of everlasting love til they finally get what they want.

Then they stick around a little longer and say Hey!

They make lots of promises, using words like, “I love you,” “you’re so beautiful,” and “spend our lives together.” The girlfriend might be saying the same words, but there is a difference.

Some girls give a lot and put up with a lot in order to get what they want most…the relationship.

Dustin wrote: I think the 2 main reasons why guys cheat goes like this: 1) Guys get stuck with a clingy girl.

He figures maybe she’ll change over the course of a few months. She would prefer to assume (or in some cases, dream) he is as committed to her as she is to him. Self-Confident isn’t committed at all and is in fact, trying to figure a way out.

And most often in the end they end up with a broken heart.

On the other hand, some guys (including the ones more likely to cheat) come at it from the other direction.

Counselor Gary Neuman asked 200 cheating and non-cheating husbands about why they cheated.