We dated for a few months, it never got serious, but I did have fun and I truly enjoyed the time we spent together. And why did he act like such an ass when I called him, only to change his tune 5 minutes later? Maybe he was drunker than I thought and was afraid he had his beer goggles on?Maybe he was just looking to get laid that night and didn’t feel the need to continue to pursue me when that didn’t happen?We exchanged numbers, kissed, said our goodbyes, and I left feeling quite pleased with myself, knowing that I had played my cards right. I wasn’t expecting a call on Monday or Tuesday because of the ‘rules’ and all that, but by Wednesday night I started to feel a little panicked. By 7 pm I had two choices: resign myself to the fact that he isn’t into me, or do something I had never, ever done before- call him. As the phone rang I practiced the message I would leave on his voicemail in my head but was interrupted when, to my astonishment, a very perplexed-sounding J answered the phone.

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I almost called him back to cancel the whole thing.

If the phone call was that awkward I didn’t even wanna think about how awful an actual date would be!

Feelings are complicated, I mean you can be totally hot for someone one minute and totally turned off the next.

And just because something started out going in one direction it doesn’t mean you can’t take control and reroute.

Maybe he just wasn’t that into me at first but my boldness, and subsequent cool-ness about the whole thing changed his mind?

(According to the guy friends I’ve spoken to, these theories are the most likely.) He was definitely into me the night we met, then after he wasn’t into me, but then my calling him sent him back to being into me, the point is, it’s never cut and dry.

I stepped off the elevator to see an absolutely miserable looking guy slumped on a chair.

I reluctantly approached him, “Um hey, are you ready to go? When we stepped outside, he grabbed me, and kissed me.

It went something like this: “Hey, it’s Sabrina” “Oh, um hi.